There's this guy. He has the most similar, if exactly the same is too absolute, way of thinking as she has. He is the reflection of her thoughts. In fact, he is sitting right next to her, driving her home. They see things through the same eyes as if they’re in each other’s body. This guy and the girl, they are that happy-go-lucky couple. Simply comfortable and happy with each other side by side when their eyes meet or heart to heart in distance. No drama, no demands. They feel equal.
Careless.
Not paying enough attention to what
one does. Yes. As much as they care about each other, they are less
concerned at many other things of their partner. Giving just enough private
space. It’s funny that for them, this ‘careless’ has the role not only as the
provider of comfort but also as their root of fear. They are afraid if the
carelessness make one of them begin to lose the passion. From careless turns
into completely ignorant. As she/he keeps trying to hold on and fix everything,
the other person doesn’t give a shit about anything anymore. Poof! There goes
away the equality. Then one of them would leave.
He said that in a relationship, boys (not
men) are nice and thoughtful and everything in the beginning, then sooner or
later the affection getting less and less. She agrees. Then girls who still
have the same lovey-dovey feeling would hold on or maybe they would eventually
leave with a broken heart. Maybe the girl could keep up with the slight
yet constant changes, or maybe not. On the other hand, girls tend to be
irrational. Whine about silly things or be mad for no reason or too dreamy
about the future. Maybe the guy could cope with her or maybe he would walk
away.
Things would turn ugly, stay the same,
may be gets even better. Who knows, right? As long as both of lovers still
enjoy whatever they have, nothing could go wrong. As long as they are willing
to go through anything together.
As long as they love equally.
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